**stop pretending that the pain you inflict on others is romantic**
Or that you used them for your own self-growth or for a learning experience. Stop pretending that your abuse is an expression of love. Don’t allow entitled people to make it seem like it’s your fault that you were confused when the person who told you that they loved you also hurt you.
This is society for everything, if you are considered “conventionally attractive” than whatever you do it’s appealing. However if you are considered to be less attractive than whatever you do it’s wrong.
This deserves so many notes. I have heard all of the black quotes behind my back. It’s really demoralizing.